The piece of software I use the most is the popup nomograph on Sigma's page; google for "nomograph" and it'll come up as the first or second link.
If you click the pull out tabs on the right, those can be really useful; particularly the "physical properties" one.
However, this is more related to the actual practical chemistry. Unless you have a semi-decent lab at home and are doing practical chemistry involving pressure differences and so on, you will be told precisely what to do at university and won't be allowed to run things your own way.
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Oh, there's another interesting bit of software available from James Hendrickson.
His group has produced two versions. The first, and more basic, version is free. You draw what you're starting with, what you want, define the changes you'll allow to the carbons and it'll come back with a list of ideas from journals that you can then have a look at (provided you want to pay for the articles or can otherwise access them).
The second you pay for and I think it instead works using mechanisms to suggest new routes. Since these are unreferenced, potentially never attempted, suggestions, it is not guaranteed that they will all function, or be nice or economical to do. But it is a good way of looking for new ideas.
You can find them both on his groups website, which seems quite temperamental; sometimes it'll be up, other times it won't respond (so there must be a wonky server or something in the way).
Here's a link to his profile at Brandeis and there's a link on there to his own site with the software on it. You may have to check back as his page isn't working at the moment. I'll send him an email and let him know.James B Hendrickson - Professor Emeritus of Chemistry - Synthesis of natural products. Computerization of synthesis design and development of new synthetic reactions.