And in answer to the OP's question, my first set of conditions would be to use DCC and DIPEA in DCM or DMF. Both primary and secondary amines work reasonably well if they aren't especially hindered, and if the amine is cheap you can just use it in excess and not bother with the DIPEA. I would avoid anilines, as these are much less reactive and don't couple well. EDC does help the work-up as it allows you to remove the dicyclohexylurea, but until you make your product you won't know if this is a problem anyway - often the DCC by-product is easily removed by chromatography. Also, be careful using DCC - it is a sensitizer, so wear gloves and use in a fumehood. There are horror stories of people so sensitive to it that they can't enter a lab where it has been used - this would be a career death sentence if you work on peptide chemistry!
In addition to the reactivity I just described, using HOBt can also prevent epimerization of the amino acid during coupling, so if you're not using it you should check whether this has happened, either by optical rotation, HPLC or by checking for diastereomers if there are >1 stereogenic centre.
Hope this helps.