I will try to answer everybody.
Let's start from the assumption that in science we want to call things with their proper name, in order to avoid confusion and to know exactly what we mean. Otherwise we can all invent our own autistic language and stop understanding one another.
movies, the argument was not mine, but my teacher's; but I agree with him, so I adopted his point of view. There are plenty of books, papers and people using incorrect terms, so their existence doesn't prove anything.
k.V., my prof.'s point was that you can't mix symmetry considerations with stereogenic centers or stereoselective syntheses, because in the first case you refer to rigid, unchangeable objects and their geometric properties (actually defined by mathematical operators), whereas in the last two cases you break and form bonds, so you have completely different things to deal with.
I remember he explained that 'asymmetric induction' is wrong because you don't really induce asymmetry, you need to have it from the beginning. And in fact when you do enantioselective syntheses, you don't really generate a single stereocenter from nothing: you go through diastereomeric transition states, AND this is only possible thanks to some adduct of preexisting chiral species. When you do diastereoselective syntheses you don't really do anything special, because diastereomers are inherently different (they are not correlated by any symmetry operation), therefore it's perfectly normal that they behave differently in the transition state.
Custos, IUPAC allows the use of many common terms for chemicals, especially heterocycles and simple chemicals. It strongly discourages the use of those terms which can generate confusion and/or don't follow a rational system. For instance, 'benzene' is always preferred to 'benzol' because the second may make people think of some aromatic alcohol, whereas the first is more consistent for an unsaturated hydrocarbon.
So at the end of the day, nobody will be shot for using inexact terminology, but I do believe my prof. was right when he pointed out that having clear ideas on what you're talking about is the basis of rational, scientific thinking.
I'm sorry I can't explain it as effectively as he did, but I'm sure that if you could talk to him he would convince you.
And yes, without using hypnosis.