Rosetta,
While, I am not well versed on the rules myself, they explain unexpected cases for some reactions. For the example that you are asking, they would not apply, since whether it is ortho, para, or meta, it is the same group, thus the orbitals would be the same. For your case you would just proceed normally with the most likely reaction being the one with the smallest gap.
However, par of the rules try to explain cases in which the lowest gap does not lead to a reaction due to symmetry constrains.
For example the HOMO in cis-1,3 butadiene is able to interact with the LUMO in ethene to form cyclohexene (A Diels-Alder cycloaddition).
On the other hand the HOMO in one ethene and the LUMO in another ethene do not combine to form cyclobutane, even though the energies are close together to indicate otherwise, in this case the symmetry is not the correct one.
Valdo