It's hard for a layman to understand the background of the activity series, and thermodynamic potential and Gibbs Free Energy, one you understand them, will help a lot. For a layman, there is some way of visualizing the activity series -- in our world, wood is common, you see it lying around all the time, you know likewise, that carbon dioxide means death to living things that require oxygen. Yet, with a small amount of activation energy, wood will burn in the atmosphere. Now take magnesium, yes, you'll find a block of it around from time to time, but you never find free elemental magnesium in an ore seam, as distinct from gold, platinum, often silver, rarely copper, even more occasionally iron.