Most of what you've said in you last posting is incorrect, or misguided. The ice bath is a bunch of ice, from an industrial ice maker, not DI water, because it's not a reactant -- see, the ice is put into an ordinary hotel ice bucket, then the flask with the reactants is nestled into the crushed ice. Then methanol saturated with dry ammonia gas (not the soapy cleaning fluid called household ammonia) is added to the THF containing the reactant.
This sort of thing is quite typical in synthetic organic chemistry. Eventually, the product will be water soluble, but in the process of getting there, intermediates may be too "oily" to mix with water, as you'd expect. Ultimately, the source chemicals for many pharmaceuticals is petroleum stock chemicals, and you know petroleum products and water don't mix.
Nor should they be mixed -- to be honest, it's been so long since I took organic chemistry I don't really understand the reaction, others may jump in, we have no shortage of bright organic chemistry people on this board. However, I do know that reactions that involve ammonia and organics often must be scrupulously dry -- that's our jargon for "water free", I do mean the reaction remains "fluid", just that the ether (that's what THF is) and the methanol must not introduce water to the reaction, or it will "soak up" the ammonia with side reactions or react with the organic molecule we're trying to activate.
Your $300 investment in an advanced chemistry text is kinda wasted, for the moment, because you lack the very basics, which took us several years of daily dialog to absorb, and you're not going to glean enough context from a twice a day posting to learn it in this thread. A further investment, in some basic organic chemistry texts is what you need.
Failing that, lots of basic, and intermediate organic chemistry questions are asked on this boards. They're a great way to get started, on the path to figuring out these science behind your questions.