The way I see it, is that methyl benzene is not planar, it's tetrahedral. (Prototype Geometry). The phenyl substituent is just replace by a proton (H), so therefore it's tetrahedral. Toluene (a.k.a methylbenzene) is aromatic because of the phenyl substiuent or benzene ring. We look for the ring, that's it; very simple, we just look at for that benzene ring, and that gives the compound or whatever it is "aromatic" properties. For example, female hormones like estrogen is aromatic, and male hormones like testosterone isn't because the molecule does not contain that aromatic ring. The class of compounds are called Arenes.