It's not a phenyl cation, it's a phenyl anion. It's not really as bad as you think.
And the orbital with the anion is sp2[/sub], the orbitals of the aromatic system are just p; there are no sp orbitals in benzene.
By the way, the pKa of propane is around 44 and the pKa of benzene is around 35, so the deprotonation that Dan mentioned will surely occur.