Hello Dzoni,
Unfortunately, I do not know of any 'industrial standard'. In the oilfield, industry standard is a highly relative term. What is acceptable in the North Sea may not work efficient enough (with the appropriate capital costs) for Canada. What may work in Canada may not meet environmental standards for a different part of the world.
According to the Merck Index, benzene is miscible with alcohol, chloroform, ether, carbon disulphide, carbon tetrachloride, glacial acetic acid, acetone and oils. You have many possible chemicals to choose from, and also the miscible solvent HIGHLY depends on your benzene capture process (efficiency, contact time, etc.) and also depends on the method in which you are going to reclaim benzene from regenerating your chemical (heat, separation, etc.).
First, decide upon a chemical, then select your process. If your process doesnt work, then try to design the process then select the chemical.
I hope this helps!
Sincerely,
Eugene